You are resposibile 100% for your life

Verily never will Allah change a condition of a people until they change what is within their souls [Ra'd 13:11

Bored with your life? The real truth is that there is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live, and that person is YOU. The question now is how to take 100% responsibility for your life?
Here's how.

1. Give up all your excuses. You either do or you don't. 99% of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses. Excuses will only delay or fail us. So give up all excuses forever.
2. If you don't like your outcome, change your response. It is all a matter of attitude and behavior that created completely different experiences. If you foresee something would happen, you may choose either to be be positive or be negative about it. The way you think will influence your preparations.

3. Your experience today is the result of choices you have made in the past Everything you experience is the result of step 2. There are 3 things that you could control, the thoughts you think, the images you visualize and the action you take (the behavior). Use these three things to control your experience.

4. If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got. Do you always wonder why you are always stucked with the same result? You cannpt expect to continue the same behavior and expect any changes. So change. make today better than yesterday and tomorrow better than today.  

5. Give up blaming All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. Acknowledge the truth and take action.

6. Give up complaining. People always complain about things they can do something about. The circumstances you complain about are situations you can change, but you choose not to. Why not? Because normally they involve risks and you are afraid of the fear. Now you know that you have two choices, to complain or to stop complaining and create something better for you.  

7. Complaint to the right person Should you need to complain, ensure you do it to the right person. The one who can take action on things you complain. Better if you could replace complain with making request and taking action.

8. You either create or allow everything that happens to you. Create means you directly cause something to happen by your actions or INACTIONS. Most of the time, we allow things to happen to us by our inaction or our unwillingness to do what is necessary. For example, your sales target for this month is RM3000, but you did not do any marketing effort to reach the target. You have to realize that you are not a victim. You make what you are.

9. Simple isn't necessarily easy. You control your actions and to be successful, you must act in ways that produce what you want. It's that simple. But it's not always easy. Pay attention to what you are doing and pay attention to the results. get feedback and act accordingly. Do more of what is working, do less of what isn't, and try new behaviors to see if they produce better results.

10. Pay attention, your results don't lie. You have follow all the steps and now it's time to evaluate. The easiest way to evaluate your effort and changes is by looking at the results. Do you get what you want? Be honest too yourself and keep improving yourself. Insya Allah, you'll get better.

credit: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be, Jack Canfield. 

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